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Melanie Claire Hopp passed away at her home in Chelsea, MI on April 13, 2019 after thriving in the face of cancer for many years.  She was well-supported in her final days by her loving family, her many friends and Arbor Hospice. Melanie was born in 1957 in Livonia, MI to Elliott and Marjorie Parrish.  She met her husband of 40 years, Wallace Hopp, at Michigan State University.  They married in 1978 and settled in Chicago where they restored an old Victorian house and raised their two children, Elliott (of Auburn Hills) and Clara (of Detroit).  In addition to creating a warm home, Melanie worked as a learning specialist who taught special education students in the Chicago Public Schools and later in Ann Arbor. 

Melanie was also highly active in every community in which she lived.  In Rogers Park, Chicago, she was Local School Council President for her neighborhood elementary school, a Hospice volunteer and organizer of the famous Morse Avenue Fourth of July Parade.  After returning to Michigan, she became a dynamic member of the Chelsea First United Methodist church, an involved volunteer at Cass Community Social Services in Detroit, and an engaged participant in the Chelsea and Ann Arbor communities.  Despite her physical disabilities, Melanie found many ways to perform small acts of kindness for a wide array of people.

In addition to her husband and children, Melanie is survived by her brother Stephen Parrish of Livonia, her mother-in-law Rosemary Hopp of Chelsea, a large number of cousins, nieces, nephews, in-laws, close friends, and her dog Domino, all of whom she held dear.

A memorial service will be held at 3 pm on Saturday, April 27 at the First United Methodist Church, 128 Park St, Chelsea, MI.  The family suggests memorial contributions be sent to Cass Community Social Services, 11745 Rosa Parks Blvd, Detroit, MI 48206. 


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#27 Kris Khoury 2022-11-21 23:24
I just happened to Google Wally and Melanie. They were two of my wonderful roommates when we were at MSU as undergraduates. So sad to hear of Mel's passing. I have so many wonderful memories of both of you. Wally, you seem to have achieved an outstanding career and I wish you only the best!
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#26 Elliott H. 2020-03-18 18:43
I suffered with you all those years more than you'll ever know. I took on your struggles and rebelled against the world. Life isn't fair. It never has been, and It never will be fair. But it still goes on. You raised me the best you knew how. My outcome isn't your fault. I hold no regrets and I wish you peace. This is just the start of your journey. Stay strong in the next life.
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#25 Soroush Saghafian 2019-05-01 13:43
Wally-It's extremely tough to hear a sad news like this, especially when I'm not there to offer any meaningful help. I know you and your family went through many, many difficult years. Among many things I've learned from you is to be strong during difficult times. My thoughts and prayers have been, and are with you and your family.
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#24 Sanjeev Kumar 2019-04-30 17:20
Wally, so very sorry for your and your family's loss. I only met Melanie once, but I remember her as a loving, caring and wonderful person. Please know that my family has yours in our thoughts and prayers.
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#23 Anita Tucker 2019-04-29 16:03
Hello Wally, I am so sorry to hear of your loss, and your children's loss. It is hard to lose a mom -- and a wife. Reading through the comments it seems that Melanie was extra special, and I am sure it makes her passing even more painful. Please take care and know that many are thinking of you and your family. - Anita
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#22 Mark Spearman 2019-04-28 11:55
The service for Melanie was so beautiful. Wally told us that she had had a hand in the arrangements and did not want a host of "St. Melanie" stories as is typical in most funerals. Instead, Wally told one story, a beautiful story, about how Mel sought to console others while suffering from an attack, that could have been fatal, by a deranged man. After hearing about the injuries she had suffered with no long term effects, it was the nurses of Cook County Hospital that came to her bedside during the night just to touch the one who had been “touched by the hand of God.”
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#21 Linda 2019-04-26 15:03
Her kind smile will be missed but only for a little while. First Thessalonians 4:13 and 14. "Moreover, brothers, we do not want you to be ignorant lacking knowledge about those who are sleeping in death, so that you may not sorrow as the rest do who have no hope. For if we have faith that Jesus died and rose again, so too God will bring with him those who have fallen asleep in death through Jesus." Rest in Peace Melanie.
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#20 Griffin Wright 2019-04-23 20:11
Melanie was fierce and a force to be reckoned with in the best possible way. While I did not have the fortune of knowing her as long as others, I have many fond memories of being with her and her Hopp family as I became a part of that family. I learned a lot from her and know she has left a lasting impact in many lives, including mine. Melanie, I know you definitely won't just rest up there, so whatever you're up to, may you do so in eternal peace! We all send our love, especially Iain.
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#19 Art Hurter 2019-04-23 18:21
Dear Wally: I was sorry to learn of Melanie” passing. I am experiencing something similar with Florence and Alzheimer’s i have some feeling for what you are going through. You both were strong and you will miss her terribly but survive
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#18 David Simchi-Levi 2019-04-20 11:41
Wally, we are so sorry for your loss. We were fortunate to have spent some fun time with Melanie when we were at Northwestern. Edith and David
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